How A Coach can Help
“Divorce coaching is a flexible, goal-oriented process designed to support, motivate, and guide people going through divorce to help them make the best possible decisions for their future, based on their particular interests, needs, and concerns."
– American Bar Association
As a certified divorce coach, I specialize in helping clients who don’t want an ugly divorce, either for their children or for themselves. By taking the decent and honorable approach to divorce, the kids benefit and so do you. When an amicable divorce isn't possible, I have the experience and resources to help with high conflict spouses and ongoing co-parenting challenges. Divorce may be the most difficult thing you have faced. The good news is you do not have to walk this path alone.
As your coach, I will:
- Provide a safe, non-judgmental, confidential space for all of your divorce challenges
- Be your thinking and strategic partner
- Help you identify and stay aligned with your goals and values when circumstances threaten to pull you away from them
- Connect you with other professional resources for your team
- Save you money and time working with other professionals by making you a more organized, focused and efficient client
- Guide you in sidestepping the most common divorce mistakes
- Work with you to do the necessary recovery work allowing you to heal and move forward
Together, we will:
- Set goals and take the necessary steps to reach them
- Work to shield your children during the process to ensure their well-being and get you on track for a healthy, effective co-parenting relationship
- Prepare for attorney meetings and mediations
- Approach major and often permanent decisions with clarity
- Identify the best choice at each opportunity to create the future you want
- Design messaging for your children, spouse, family and community
- Address grief, guilt, acceptance, forgiveness, letting go and healing