How a Coach Can Help

“Divorce coaching is a flexible, goal-oriented process designed to support, motivate, and guide people going through divorce to help them make the best possible decisions for their future, based on their particular interests, needs, and concerns."

– American Bar Association

As a certified divorce coach, I specialize in helping clients who don’t want an ugly divorce, either for their children or for themselves.  By taking the decent and honorable approach to divorce, the kids benefit and so do you.  Divorce may be the most difficult thing you have faced.  The good news is you do not have to walk this path alone.

As your coach, I will:

  • Provide a safe, non-judgmental, confidential space for all of your divorce challenges
  • Help you identify and stay aligned with your goals and values when circumstances threaten to pull you away from them
  • Connect you with other professional resources for your team as needed
  • Save you money and time working with other professionals by making you a more organized, focused and efficient client
  • Guide you in sidestepping the most common divorce mistakes
  • Be your thinking and strategic partner
  • Work with you to achieve peace without regrets and to do the necessary recovery work to move forward

Together, we will:

  • Set goals and take the necessary steps to reach them
  • Work to shield your children during the process to ensure their well-being and get you on track for a healthy, effective co-parenting relationship
  • Prepare for attorney meetings and mediations
  • Approach major and often permanent decisions with clarity
  • Identify the best choice at each opportunity to create the future you want
  • Design messaging for your children, spouse, family and community
  • Address grief, guilt, acceptance, forgiveness, letting go and healing
  • Create a beautiful new plan for your family